Hi Guys,
I have had a huge response to the competition, and after much reading, sorting, and deliberation, I have 5 winners!
I was really surprised by the high quality of many of the entries, and it is obvious that lot of thought and effort went into drafting your entries. It’s great to see so many of you involved and never giving up on the chance of love happening in your life, at any age.
Here is a link to the competition where you can review some of the 130+ entries that we received: Get The Girl Guide Competition.
3 of the winners were chosen for the quality and thought in their entries (there were many to choose from!), and another 2 entries were selected at random.
Here are the winners of “The Get The Girl Guide”
Nick
Chance
Steve
Stephen
Son
And here are their winning entries:
Nick Says:
October 24th, 2008 at 1:00 pm
I’ve realized throughout your email series that your lessons not only apply to increasing success with girls but also to introspectively looking at your own self, your own insecurities and how to best confront them. Your emails have not only improved my success with women but also helped me to solidify my character, become comfortable in my own skin and handle high pressure situations. Your lessons are great and so much more genuine than the other cliches you find on the internet related to pickup and building character.
I’m a sophomore in college who’s at that turning point in his life in many respects, and I would love a copy of your get the girl guide not only to improve my success with women but to also help me gain the confidence i need to succeed in all aspects of my life at this critical juncture. The emails alone have helped me build the confidence to deal with challenges I would have never handled beforehand, I would LOVE to receive a free copy of your guide. Be Cool
Chance Says:
October 23rd, 2008 at 2:40 am
Lot of brothers out there are dying to discover their full potential when it comes to the inner game but have never dared to go an extra mile to boost or manifest to reality their full potential on their own. Our African culture custodians have never focused on the foundation(getting a girl)but placed emphasis on basics of keeping a girl.Surely, can you, in good faith, keep something you know was acquired without your full perceived effort? Through this guide, i believe it will change both the way of building the foundation and framework of true love. I believe it will make me hit my head many times because each time i read these guides i laugh at myself after discovering the costly mistakes i had been making all along.I Want things to flow naturally when i launch my search for my soul mate. im 23 years old but i dont feel that those that i hit at no are not an axact match of my dreams. So teach Me! Later.
Steve Says:
October 22nd, 2008 at 10:20 pm
I am 39 years old and have NEVER really had a girlfriend. As far as relationship history goes, I feel like I am still in high school. I like women and usually enjoy talking to them and I really listen to them, which always lands me in the dreaded FRIEND ZONE. For example, I was good friends with a girl a couple years ago and I was totally interested in making more out of it and thought she was perfect for me. One time when we went out to dinner, she told me about this other guy that we both knew and how she had slept with him and even went into a bit of detail. I was so crushed by hearing that, I couldn’t sleep at all that night and, literally, felt like killing myself the next day. I couldn’t see why she slept with a guy who went through lots of girls and thought of her as just anther notch on his bedpost; while me, a guy who truly cared for her, was left to hear about the incident as if I meant nothing physically to her. I was just like another girlfriend, but the one with the penis. The absolute worst part about all this was that it had happened, in various ways and with differing women, so many times before–reinforcing the old saying “nice guys finish last.” This is no more true than in the arena of dating, sex and love. I know I’m not the only one either. There are so many really great guys out there who you could trust with your life who never get the romantic love that they deserve, its quite sad. Its not about having sex with a different girl each night of the week, because I think that, while being very exciting and adventurous for a while, is ultimately empty. I want to fall in love with a great women who knows I am just as great. To me, that’s the greatest thing in the world and also, sadly, the most difficult to come by.
Stephen Says:
October 22nd, 2008 at 11:37 am
I’m not special. I’m not trying to prove myself to others or be the top guy. I just want to have a good time with women and have the confidence in dating girls.
Son Says:
October 22nd, 2008 at 9:13 am
Beside necessary functions like eating, drinking,etc, to live a healthy life, to love and to get laid is one of the major jobs in a man’s life. But in school, noone teachs us how to make a date, how to get attraction, and how to control everyday life’s situations with women. This leads to many failures for men in approaching women, attracting, marrying, and living with them in the rest of their life because of improper strategies and behaviors. By failing to prepare, you’re preparing to fail. “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” , John Gray, the bestselling author of this series said that. Because of physical and psychological differences like that, i think in order to win in this mating game, we must develop the necessary skills to understand woman psychology, their way of expressions such as their body languages, their tests in order to find out who is the right man for them to love and live together. Man can be chosen because of their money, social status,etc but it’s their good lifestyle, their cool personality that keeps women from breaking out with them and living with them forever. In order to change our dating game to succeed, we must change our attitudes also learning the new skills, new mindset. That’s the reason why I want to develop irresistible attraction and necessary skills in my life to get the woman and relationship of my dreams
Thanks to all of you who entered and participated, all of you have very compelling reasons to get my course!
Revised launch date: Now the other news is that I have recently been busy working on securing an extra bonus for this course, which has meant I am going to need to push the launch out by a week so it will be November 18 instead of November 11. I can’t give you any detail of the bonus at the moment as its a secret, but I have managed to secure something that’s going to amaze you. Its held me up by a week, but it will be worth it!
So pencil in November 18 guys. That’s the day we launch!
Also keep an eye out in a few days, as I have a special report to share with you.
Your friend,
Slade Shaw
P.S. Please email shaw@meetyoursweet.com if you have any questions about the upcoming launch of “The Get The Girl Guide.” I would love to hear from you!
November 13th, 2008 at 2:25 pm
Hey Slade! What’s Haps Baby?!?!
Listen, I know that there are LOTS of guys out there that can not wait until this launch date!
Your no BS style and the way you tackle the heart of the problem is going to make a LOT of men out there hard to resist…
I think us girls are in trouble!
Love your work though, regardless of the fact that it leaves me defenseless (as well as other women)against those who get your highly anticipated “Get The Girl Guide”!
Then again, maybe you are going to make the world a better place…*giggle*
To The Hunt!
~ Venus
http://GoodLovingBlog.com
November 14th, 2008 at 4:48 pm
hi slade
how r u doing..today I feel that i really enjoying interacting with any women, since learning skills, and it works very well this week I could approach and talk with women anytime whenever Im in good mood but not yet getting phone number (step by step easy to more difficult and level by level) I want to thank u for your help. still I have a problem when i was in the train going to school in the morning I saw a PERFECT 10!! gorgeous woman she is extremely stunning, in that I was planning to talk to her BUT suddenly I felt blankedhead, scared , anxiety that I could be embarrased in front of people in the train and most of all INTIMIDATED!!!
Why did I felt this way!! although I am mentally and verbally saying to my self that I am social, cool, and confident guy but It DIDNT work.. Then I found a compliment and direct opener that has to do with his beauty and earrings.. When I started talking I say these in details
Me: (nervous and INTIMIDATED)”excuse me sorry to interrupt you but you are so beautiful and earrings!”(too direct and akward I know)
HOT 10: (DIDNT show appreciation maybe confused facial expression)
Me: “Where did you buy that”
HOT 10: “well in slovakia”
Me: “Oh really from slovakia. So you are from slovakia but you are borned here.
HOT 10: “ye actually my father is an austrian and my mother is austrian (friendly but confused and nervous..)
Me: “well where did you buy that?
HOT 10: ” well in slovakia!”(annoyed expression)
Me: ” do you think there is something to buy here in Vienna?
HOT 10: “Well I dont know”
Me: “ok thank you!!” (then finish)
I KNOW IT IS TOO ACKWARD!!. But I would blame my inner game because of this INTIMIDATION I felt from her extreme power of her beauty!!As she went out from a train I finally figured out what to say but it was too LATE!
Since then I got so frustrated of what I did (in which I couldnt concentrate on my studies)not because sexually rejected but effortly frustrated because of my INTIMIDATION!! I was thinking all the time if I could figure out eliminate this INTIMIDATION either in easy way or hard way. That’s why I am writing this problem and crying for your help..
my questions are:
1. Did I pick a wrong opener to start conversation in a train with lots of people?
2. Was the opener very ackward in “train situation”
3. Is there anything else that I can handle this INTIMIDATION power?
4. Is there good opener for a HOT 10 in “train situation”
5. do you think if you did very well with women could you still be rejected?
6. What was I doing exactly?
7. what should I have done instead?
sorry for a long story but I really need your help since then. I hope you reply
thank you very much
mark, Vienna , Austria
November 16th, 2008 at 4:31 am
yes, again thanks for the two books